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katchin05 - January 23, 2012 10:32 AM - Video

This video may be triggering for some.

Deelishis from Flavor Flav’s reality show is going to be on a show of her own. In this clip, she shares a story about being raped at 18. That takes a lot of guts, and says a lot about her ability to be open - but her dumbass husband and friend tell her she “led him on”.

How can you fix your mouth to say that to the woman you married? If anything, be retroactively pissed at the guy who did that to the woman you vowed to honor and protect. Be comforting. But blame her? What the fuck.

Good for her for calling him out on that bullshit too.

(Source: madamenoire.com)

#rape   #victim blaming   #Deelishis   #Reality TV  
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  1. officialad reblogged this from alybsofly
  2. alybsofly reblogged this from composethesilence
  3. composethesilence reblogged this from katchin05 and added:
    complete BULL. I wanted...dude in the freakin throat! WTH. How can you blame your WIFE....
  4. arebelontherun reblogged this from katchin05 and added:
    man, I gotta roll with the husband, its not...made a few mistakes in
  5. dorkygoodness reblogged this from hiphopcheerleader and added:
    After this convo, her and I would no longer be friends and him and I would need to go to couple counseling or something...
  6. jugotme reblogged this from hiphopcheerleader and added:
    wow. so he’s basically saying it’s her fault she got raped -_- ugh
  7. hiphopcheerleader reblogged this from dopegirlfresh and added:
    from experience, i know that one of the most important things a person can need after a act of sexual violence is...
  8. improvian reblogged this from dopegirlfresh and added:
    Saw this last night and my jaw was on the floor. The fact the woman interviewer AGREED with him was even more confusing....
  9. dopegirlfresh reblogged this from katchin05
  10. maniacalsoandso reblogged this from katchin05 and added:
    called him on that. because that was copious amounts...perfect example of blaming
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